My Daniel:

 

I have a lot to talk with you about.  I need to write it all out so I can see that it makes sense.  I don’t feel comfortable with the way things are going.  Things got  a little out of hand, and

I don’t want to lose you.  I care so much about you, and I would hate for things to get so impossible we cannot go on. 

I am having difficulties because the lines between our friendship and our D/s relationship are blurred so bad that I cannot manage.  Since I do not want to lose you, I need to make things work out.

I need to make new rules, if you want to continue being my sub we need to have boundaries and rules. 

I am sorry that you got your feelings in those two sections mixed up.  Lately I have asked you to do certain things and you haven’t.  I will post here the things I need you to read.  It is not a choice or an option.  You must read what I post for you.  It may take me a while to fish out the articles I have asked you to read, and post them here.  But I will have them for you

I understand you work a lot and you are very busy, but if you have the time to message me, you have the time to read at least one page at a time.

I know I am being harsh, but I am doing this because I care.  I am concerned for you, and you are not going to tell me you can manage because you haven’t.  You have misled me several times, manipulated things to get your way.   It is very important that you are honest with me and with yourself.  I cannot say that enough.  I have been straight forward and honest with you.  You have not been straight with me.

I know in your head you are thinking of all the ways you can tell me otherwise, I am not going to argue this, things will have to change if we are to continue.  Remember how you yourself have told me you don’t want to interfere in my marriage. 

 I want to give you a chance to tell me if you want to continue.  Keep in mind that if you choose to continue, the rules will include:

1-      Less messages and calls.  (I will write the details later)

2-      No checking on me constantly.

3-      No getting drunk and kicking yourself.

4-       No being jealous of Dwight or others.

5-      Once a month visits for playtime like we had agreed upon. 

6-      (and a few more things)

 

If you decide you don’t want to be my sub, and want to find another Domme, I want to meet her first.  You will always be my friend, but we need boundaries.

If I find that you got mad and got drunk after reading this, and go off again like you did Saturday, you will get a time-out for 2 days.

 

Once the rules are set, if you break a rule:

First offense you will have a time-out for one week.

Second offense for two weeks.

Third offense, three weeks. 

If you have a fourth, no more contact at all.

 

I am doing this for you so we can make things work properly.  I hope you can see my point of view.

Please write a next post here and tell me if you can follow the rules and I will post them.